yeah and I bet alot of people reblogging this are skinny and drop-dead gorgeous!
i love this. bless this fucking post. i fucking LOVE IT
if good looks get you somewhere fast, you’re going to end up miserable.
people are so shallow these days, it’s heart breaking.
I get caught up in at least wanting to look decent at times, but everyday, I look at myself in the mirror and think ‘fuck it’ because I’ve got people that actually love me for me, and if someone can’t talk to me because I don’t look a certain way, they can go about their shallow lives missing out on what it really means to know someone.
so, everyone; you ARE beautiful, whether it’s inside or out, but who really cares? we don’t choose our looks at birth and shouldn’t be expected to try and look cookie-cutter “perfect” because what’s life without some spice and variety?
fuck society; they aren’t the ones that are going to love you for being you.
keep in mind a lot of the “good looking” people who say it may not realise they’re attractive, I know someone who’s drop dead gorgeous but suffers from anorexia and thinks they’re ugly, so yeah
^ this. I’ve dealt with self harm and anorexia all my life, and people have frequently dismissed my problems because I’m “pretty” so I cant possibly be suffering from anything or hating myself. Just so you know, beauty has it’s downsides. Everyone I know has told me before they met me they thought i was a slut or a bitch because I was “pretty” my own boyfriend didn’t talk to me the first time he saw a picture of me because he though I had “bitchface” (admittedly I kind of do.)
Also It’s really awful to tell someone with depression “Well of course you can say that - you’re pretty! That’s so dumb/I’m mad you think you have a right to say that” when they’re maybe not just trying to lift you up, but themselves as well. Hell, maybe they think YOU’RE pretty or attractive, et cetra, and they would kill to have your eyes/body/hair/everything.
And maybe they’re only pretty because of clothes and makeup and stuff. I look like a fucking MESS when I’m completely naked and not sucking in or anything.
Seriously, think before you speak.
I just want to see who would date somebody with self harm scars..
This would be the stupidest reason I can think of for refusing to date somebody.
i dated a guy with self harm scars it never once crossed my mind that that would be a reason not to date him.